>Sitting silently and writing in the dark of the morning while listening to Chopin
>Racing to produce the audio to this blog before my son wakes up or a truck barrels down the street
I have been in Mexico for the past two weeks and I have really had my eyes opened. Not on account of living standards or the people or the language, all of which are beautiful. But on account of the level of work it takes to maintain expectations of self whilst abroad. I found myself rolling through my ‘one-hand list’ and I was surprised that I hadn’t been doing the things that lead to personal growth for the past two weeks.
What I mean by this is not that I am drinking too much or eating too much, which would be easy to do. But what I mean is that while I have been travelling around Mexico’s broken sidewalks and dodging traffic, fetching water or groceries, seeing the town or exploring the natural beauty, I forget to go through my one-hand list of fundamentals for my personal development.
I understand that this may seem vague, so let me clarify.
The One-hand List, Personal Metrics
I have personal expectations of my self on a day-to-day basis. Personal growth expectations, if you will, and they fit on one hand like this:
This short list of personal growth priorities have always been an easy way of looking over my day-to-day to determine if I am making the kinds of strides that are important to my overall personal development.
Deep Analysis From a Simple List
Sometime I get indepth and ask myself questions like:
- Did I do what leads to growth?
- Did I invest time into reading books that help me grow?
- Did I invest time in writing for myself and others?
- Did I do my personal accounting of the day?
- Did I take time to train my body and mind?
- Did I take time to have fun?’
I don’t necessarily ask myself these questions every day, or in any particular order, or even these questions; but, I can quickly assess the overall success of my personal growth by rolling through my mental shortcut: the one-hand list.
As I am sitting in Oaxaca (wa-ha-ka) I found myself rolling through those questions, realizing that I hadn’t been doing the writing that leads to personal growth, and that’s when I found my self yearning to tell you, my dear readers, that you too can quickly get back on track with your personal growth by making a ‘one-hand list‘.
Make Your Personal Growth Easier, Make a One-hand List
Take a moment now, whereever you are in the world, and list your most important priorities of your personal growth. They don’t have to be set in stone, they are on your fingers. You know what leads to your personal growth. And if you don’t, you can borrow my one-hand list to start and make changes when you are ready to.
Did you get them figured out yet? Great.
It doesn’t take much time to establish this mental checklist. And in very short order, any time you need to know how you are doing, just look down at the hand and roll through your mental pegs. You will be surprised how quickly you not only make the adjustments towards continuing your personal growth, but you will love the peace of mind that comes with knowing how to get back on track with your personal development and growth.